I never want to interfere in the workings of lOvE but I never want her hurt too. I mean, if you think she's the one and if you need her.. is it so hard to just be with her ? How can you indulge in the whole I love you but I cant have you thing. Who's stopping you? If you really love someone and what she wants is to be together, why aren't you giving the person you want what she really wants. How do you quantify that ? She's not asking for a new Balenciaga or for you to change your principles, she wants you for you so shouldn't you be ready to accept that ,there's no change needed. No one else in the world would matter , her friends her family or a 10 000 strong battalion, should stop you from being together. If you really loved her, you'd give us all a middle finger and be with her, and for that I'd probably take my hat off for you. I really don't know what's going on but I just hope she's not hurt. That's all.